Up to now, I’ve been met hundreds of men in my whole age. From my personal opinion, men were not (really) hard to be understood. Eventhough, (until today) some of women are keep wondering why and how men did things.
There are several things I’ve learned about men. These are not generally accepted, but men are:
- love to be adored or admired by women (especially by smart beautiful sexy popular women, whomever their friends always talked about). It will raise their dignities up up and up!
- like to act as heroes in order to impressed (as many as possible) women around them.
- feels sooo great if they could be a helper for woman (or women :p) they fell-in-love with, when she needs someone to lean on.
- hate to admit their stupidities or faults. It’s not because they don’t want to, but they’re just too ashamed of it.
- so hard to find that they hearts are getting broken.
- not comfort to be all alone.
- making every possible efforts to chase after woman. It’s not because they love her like crazy, but just because they want her.
- sometimes pretending as great decision-makers, although they are (already) deciding the wrong one consciously.
- carving out for something, as hard as the scratch of challenges it brought.
- hard to apologize for the wrong things they did. It’s not because they don’t understand, but they just considered it as insignificance.
- tended to run-around or blaming others when things gone wrong.
- hard to say ‘thank you’ to people they loved or people who always care for them. Just to prove that they’re strong enough to fight every difficult-things by themselves.
- annoyed when a woman mentions their weakness, scandals, disgrace, or mistakes repeatedly.
- need to be accepted for every-single-things they’ve made. If they are not, you may lost them.
- losing-head, if they lost a woman they treasured so much rather than themselves.
- being so naive when they said that they don’t need any woman.
- so hard to confess how deep they’ve been in-love with a woman. Only if they’re too shy, afraid to be rejected, or be unsure about how she feels.
If these things are true,
Are men really put their dignities above everything??
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ferry Said:
on April 28, 2009 at 10:39 am
that’s true..in my opinion it happened because man born to be a leader. may be that wway make man become that person..hehehe
if they not life in Word of God..they’ll be worst.
what do you think with my comment?
fanindye Said:
on April 28, 2009 at 7:21 pm
yap, that’s the way it is ..
basically, men have those ‘things’ such as a major manner in their lives. but it depends on how they ‘manage’ and ‘direct’ those legitimacies to a good purpose : )
so, it depends on the men themselves ~
they have to make a choice, to be leaders either losers ~